A Letter by Father | Santhosh DR

Following is a letter to his daughter from a renowned Hong Kong TV broadcaster and Child Psychologist. The words are actually applicable to all of us, young or old, children or parents.!

This applies to all sons and daughters too. All parents can use this in their teachings to their children.

Dear Children,

I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons

A) Life, fortune and mishaps are unpredictable, nobody knows how long he lives.
B) I am your father, and if I don’t tell you these, no one else will.
C) Whatever written is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches.

Remember the following as you go through life

1. Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and I. To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because, everyone has a motive for every move. When a person is good to you, it does not mean he really will be good to you. You have to be careful, don’t hastily regard him as a real friend.

2. No one is indispensable, nothing is in the world that you must possess.
Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don’t want you anymore, or when you lose what you wanted the most.

3. Life is short. When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life.

4. Love is nothing but a transient feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with one’s mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness.

Don’t over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love, and don’t over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.

5. A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life.

One can go from rags to riches, but one has to start from some rags!

6. I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor.

7. You honour your words, but don’t expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don’t expect people to be good to you. If you don’t understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles.

8. I have bought lotteries for umpteen years, but could never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch!

9. No matter how much time I have with you, let’s treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life.

Your Parents

Read it twice! Ask your son and daughter to read it thrice.

Worth.A.Read!

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Forgiveness Is A Virtue? | Santhosh DR

In this level, the person is unable to forgive the offender and keeps on thinking about him and the unpleasant event over and over again. The effect is not only so much pain and suffering in the current lifetime, but also extended emotional attachments and problems in the future incarnations.

According to great spiritual teachers including Master Choa Kok Sui, two things bind souls together: love and hatred.

By loving a person deeply, there are higher chances of meeting and being with the beloved soul in the future incarnations. These are the people that we love and feel comfortable and connected with even from the first few moments of being together.

The sad news is that “hatred” also binds souls together as there is a lesson in the relationship to be learnt. The lesson is love!

Therefore the relationship between the two souls who hate each other often gets closer and closer, to teach them to love one another. Most of the couples that have difficult relationships, parents and children who cannot get along, brothers and sisters that have a hard time being together fall under this category. They need to learn to love each other, break the wicked cycle and let go.

“Anger and Hatred bind people together! When you Hate someone, it creates an “Energy Link” with the person. You become chained to the person and your Soul becomes entangled with that person. If you want to be free, you must Forgive people.”

Master Choa Kok Sui

Thank God Everyday! #GodBless #GodIsGreat 🙏

Rich man looked through his window and saw a poor man picking something from his dustbin. He said, Thank GOD I’m not poor.

The poor man looked around and saw a naked man misbehaving on the street. He said, Thank GOD I’m not mad.

The mad man looked ahead and saw an ambulance carrying a patient. He said, Thank GOD am not sick.

Then a sick person in hospital saw a trolley taking a dead body to the mortuary. He said, Thank GOD I’m not dead.

Only a dead person cannot thank God.

Why don’t you thank GOD today for all your blessings and for the gift of life for another beautiful day.

Thank God

What is LIFE?

To understand life better, you have to go to 3 locations :

1. Hospital

2. Prison

3. Cemetery

🏥 At the Hospital, you will understand that nothing is more beautiful than HEALTH.

🔐 In the Prison, you’ll see that FREEDOM is the most precious thing.

💐 At the Cemetery, you will realize that life is worth nothing. The ground that we walk today will be our roof tomorrow.

Sad Truth: We all come with nothing and we will go with nothing. Let us, therefore, remain humble and be thankful & grateful to God at all times for everything!

Great Motivation & Life’s Alphabetical Rules! #Life

​An Old man has 8 hair on his head. 

He went to Barber shop. 

Barber in anger asked: 

Shall I cut or count? 

Old man smiled and said: “Colour it!” 

LIFE is to enjoy with whatever you have with you, keep smiling.

If you feel STRESSED, 

Give yourself a Break,

Enjoy Some.

Ice cream 

Chocolates 

Cake 

Why? 

B’Coz 

STRESSED in reverse Spelling -DESSERTS !!!
Alphabetic advice for you: 

A B C – Avoid Boring Company.

D E F – Don’t Entertain Fools.

G H I – Go for High Ideas. 

J K L M – Just Keep a friend like ME.

N O P – Never Overlook the Poor and suffering.

Q R S – Quit Reacting to Silly tales.

T U V – Tune Urself for ur Victory.

W X Y Z – We Expect You to Zoom ahead in life.

If you see the moon. You see the beauty of God.

If you see the Sun. You see the power of God.

If you see the Mirror. You see the best Creation of GOD.

So Believe in YOURSELF.

Our aim in life should be

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 0

9 – glass drinking water. 

8 – hrs sound sleep. 

7 – wonders tour with family.

6 – six digit income.

5 – days work a week 

4 – wheeler.

3 – bedroom flat 

2 – cute children. 

1 – sweetheart. 

0 – tension! 

Be like water. My friend.

You should be formless, shapeless, flexible, universal, open, necessary, clean, pure.

When water is poured in a cup, it becomes the cup, when it is poured in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When it flows in a river, it becomes the river. And when it is in an ocean, it becomes the ocean.

It can crash, it can lift. It can hide, it can attack.

It can soften the potato, but at the same time, can harden the egg. Be like water, because just like energy, it is never destroyed.

Only changes its form and shape.(Heavily inspired by Bruce Lee and Osho)